When we think of Valentine's Day is it about romance? Gratitude? Love, or just Love of chocolate ? I keep calling it Mother's day, so we pose the question: Is this a psychological slip? As I am a mother, is this just wishful thinking? Can we include Mom's? Anyway, it is coming up on February 14 and we wonder if you have thought about what to give your dear one, be it a lover, a family member, or a friend , (other than a foot massage or three un-interrupted hours of free time; both very much appeciated!).